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Insights from Moving


Relieved to say that I am finally all settled in my new home in Columbia, South Carolina! The past two weeks have been very busy preparing to move, saying goodbye to loved ones in Cleveland, traveling to South Carolina, unpacking, and preparing for international business school.

The moving process has brought mixed emotions, sweat and tears, and hopeful anticipation of my new journey in the southern United States. In the stress of moving, I was reminded to find joy (inspired by my friends, and family) in order to make the transition as pleasant as possible. Below are some of the great insights I have gained from completing my first cross-country move:

1. Moving helps us declutter, organize, and prioritize our belongings. We may not be able to bring that favorite stuffed animal or antique vase we have had with us for years. While we may feel sad to leave it behind, we can donate it and provide joy to others.

Source: Avro Moving

Source: Avro Moving

2. Moving provides us with the opportunity to revisit our travel trinkets and favorite clothes and accessories, reminding us of our favorite memories from our adventures. We can think of packing as a time to reflect on all of our past experiences, providing us with closure as we transition to the next step in our journey.

3. Moving teaches us how to turn any place from “house” to “home.” By adding our own personal touches, decorations, and photos, any place can feel like “home.” We can seek the familiar to make us comfortable like we are at home. For example, in the United States, I have learned that it is comforting to see similar stores across states. My favorite superstore, Target, and my favorite pharmacy, CVS, are everywhere,  which makes moving across the country less intimidating.

4. Moving enables us to refresh who we are and who we want to be. We can adjust our daily routines to improve our health and happiness, seek out new hobbies, and learn new cultures from our local surroundings. We can take a deep breath of new fresh air and start the day remembering “carpe diem.” We can make a place what we want it to be.

I hope these insights provide you with an inspirNational mindset to help you as you move now or in the future. I am reminded of one of my previous posts, Bloom Where You Are Planted, which I will remember as I get established in Columbia. With moving season upon us, good luck as many of you make the exciting life transition!


A Yankee Perspective on Southern Livin’


Are you interested in learning what is like to live in the Southern United States? My boyfriend, a native Michigander, turned into a southerner last summer when he entered law school at the University of South Carolina. Below you will learn more about the Southern lifestyle, particularly from a Yankee (Northern American’s) point of view. Thank you, Hunter, for sharing your thoughts!

Moving can be one of the most frustrating and stressful things one can do. I have moved several times in my life, but none more drastic nor more important that my move down to South Carolina for Law School. I have now been located in Columbia, South Carolina for almost 6 months. This post aims to share my perceptions of the south from a northern viewpoint, and to give insight to anyone who is considering moving down here as well!

Coming from Michigan, my experiences with the southern half of the United States were extremely few and far between. Besides a couple trips to Florida and driving through the south, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Luckily for me, it has been mostly a great experience and a definite perspective changer.

What I have noticed about living south of the Mason-Dixon line:

Goodbye snow, hello sun. One very positive experience I have enjoyed down south is the weather! While I will admit that the last few weeks of August and first few weeks of September were HOT, from mid-September on, the weather has been absolutely gorgeous. Just today on January 25th, I was one of many who went for a run on this beautiful “winter” day in the upper 50s and sun. While I enjoy skiing and the snow around the holidays, the never-ending winter of Michigan would often wear me down and bring about seasonal depression. South Carolina weather has been wonderful for being outside and has definitely been an upgrade from Michigan weather. I have spent more time running outdoors, riding my bike, and swimming in these six months than I would in two years up north. And for that, an A+ for positive weather experience.

Columbia State House

Columbia State House

Vineyard vine, sperrys, and sundresses. There is also a distinct difference in style. Down south, the prevailing culture is traditional and very preppy. The men wear pastel colors, boat shoes, and chubbies (short shorts). The women wear sundresses and very traditional southern clothing. It is almost as if I was transported back to the 1960s. This style change has been both a positive and somewhat of a negative experience. The one negative about southern style is that there is a strong culture of conformity. Because there is such an overwhelming popular style, if one does not conform to the group, it is easy to feel left out. Having said that, the style has also been a positive because it results in everyone looking good and caring about their appearance. The ambiance of well-dressed people enriches the environment and has been an overall a positive experience.

Robert E. Lee and John C. Calhoun are Gods among men. In South Carolina, there is a great sense of pride and culture with the state and the south as a whole. Along with that, there is a strong sense of identity with Southern history. This past weekend, Brittany and I visited the Confederate museum and realized the differences in historical perspective. The Confederate museum was very sympathetic towards the succession of the Southern States and it treated the north as an oppressive imperial force. There was even a comparison between General Sherman’s army and the Nazis. It was fascinating to see the differences in perspective between the north and south. In Michigan, there was a sense of state pride. However it pales in comparison to the southern pride I have seen in South Carolina. When you are in South Carolina, you will know that you are in South Carolina! I have grown to love this southern culture and historical pride.

Confederate Flag from Columbia, South Carolina curing the Civil War

Confederate Flag from Columbia, South Carolina curing the Civil War

Nice and easy. The stereotypes are true: Life down south moves at a slower pace and southern hospitality is alive and well. The folks down south have been very nice, very welcoming, and easy to get along with. Compared with the north, life seems to move just a bit slower and people do not appear to be as rushed. If you’d like to slow down, I’d say the south is the place for you.

Hope you’re hungry! I love southern food. Collard greens, fried Okra, and BBQ with the vinegar-based sauce are foods that everyone should try. Additionally, the proximity to the Atlantic Ocean means that the seafood here is also absolutely delicious. With some Sweet Tea to wash it all down, you will not go home hungry. I have found that I can enjoy all of the food I have grown to love up north, while also getting a taste of some fine Southern culinary dishes. It is the best of both worlds and definitely a positive experience.

Wear your Sunday finest! Religion has a larger place in everyday society down south. I received a first taste of religion in the south in my first law class. Midway through the class, a girl sneezed and at least half of the class (including the professor mid-sentence), said “God bless you”. A large procession of “bless you’s” is now an everyday occurrence after a sneeze and that is a clear distinction from my educational experiences in Michigan. And while religion clearly is important, I have not been pressured or coerced in any way to join a particular church or follow a particular denomination. From what I have encountered so far, religion is widely practiced and good morals are preached, but not in an offensive way. So that has been another positive experience!

The south may not be for everyone, but it has been a great experience for me so far. While I can see myself returning to Michigan one day, the different culture and perspective I have experienced in the South has been invaluable. As a wise woman once told me, “bloom where you are planted.” The South has been a wonderful place to bloom and I would encourage anyone to come down south and experience this new perspective on life!